by Savanja on Nov 15, 2005
 I
  wanted to make sure that Christa knew what this
  game was
  about and what she would expect from it.  We went to lunch together one afternoon and I explained as much
  of the
  basics that I could.  What your
  objective can be, what the races are, what classes they can choose and
  who they
  can become.  She understood the games
  approach through my words, which was a good start.  I also asked her questions to understand what she might be
  apprehensive
  about.  Christa was genuinely nervous as
  she sat in her chair biting her nails.  What would others think of her?  Will she like it?  Is it going to
  be too complex?  I reassured her that I
  would be playing with her at all times and that she didnt have to make
  any
  social contact with anyone else if she didnt want to.
 So here
  is what I have to work with: 
  Christa loves to play video games, but plays things like Wheel of Fortune, console fighting games, and her favorite game of all, The
  Sims.  I know with these types of games
  on her resume, EQ2 control is going to be a difficult thing to learn.  I know, shes not going to be dodging
  fireballs from hell demons or sniper fire from campers similar to most
  first
  person shooters, but the movement is similar.  Christa is also the most wonderful woman in the world and Im
  not just
  saying that because I know shell be reading it later and making me
  dinner.  <awkward pause>  Heh
  Shes a patient woman, so Im pretty sure I wont be in
  danger of any physical threats and/or abuse.  
 I
  finally get down to starting a new account and I
  log her
  in.  She sat down in the captains chair
  took the mouse with her right hand and looked blankly at the character
  select
  screen.
  So what do I do? she asks.
  Well, here is where you chose your characters race. I
  answered.
  So which one should I pick? she wondered aloud.
  It doesnt really matter sweetie, just pick the one you
  like the best.
   My wife started clicking on some of the choices, giggled at
  the shorter races and sarcastically complimented the Trolls and Ogres.  Christa ended on the high elf and started
  going to work on the character creation sliders taking her time with
  the
  hairstyles and color.
  She stopped for a moment and asked me, Can I change my hair
  style whenever I want?
  No, I replied, Once you pick a style, that is the one you
  keep for the life of that character.
  Well thats just silly. She said incredulously as I
  laughed to myself.
 Once
  she finished creating her masterpiece, it was
  time for
  the boat ride to the Isle of refuge to test the usefulness of the Everquest 2 tutorial.  I left her to follow along
  with the directions as I quickly put together a companion for her on my
  own
  account.  She liked the idea of creating
  a mage for herself so I thought it best to be a fighter and manage the
  aggro
  while she nuked.  
 Fresh
  off the boat we started questing together
  while small
  parts of the tutorial would pop up for her to listen to.  I showed her how to auto follow my Barbarian
  since control was still a little bit difficult for her.  Control will continue to take some time to
  become comfortable with since one must click a mouse button to move the
  camera.  Christa still likes to move her
  character with the movement keys opposed to the mouse.  I showed her the shortcut keys for her
  inventory and how to equip weapons, armor, food, etc.  She then learned how to follow her journal, managing quests and
  collections.  Things were moving very
  smoothly as I was able to deter any questions or duels that other
  refugees threw
  at her.
 One of
  the frustrating points of her training was
  understanding what the specific spells do.  A lot of the descriptions for the spells are full of
  role-playing jargon
  that could understandably be very confusing for a first-timer.  I patiently explained the terminology and
  helped her set up her user interface so that they made more sense by
  location.  Attacks were put on one side
  and buffs on the other.  Targeting was a
  bit tough if I wasnt directly in her sight, but teaching her how to
  keep me
  targeted by using the F2 key really helped.  We slayed goblins, found parts for an annoying gnome, chopped up
  skeletons and bartered with the local NPC merchants.  
An enjoyable time was had by both of us through
  the 5 hours
  that we played together.  She even asked
  when we could play again.  Next stop:
  Qeynos.
 If you
  decide that you would like to teach you
  significant
  other how to play Everquest 2,
  or any other MMORPG for that matter, I
  would
  highly recommend that you do things this way and take the time to make
  this new
  player comfortable.  Remember, this is
  something that you want, but in order to accomplish it, the other
  person must
  enjoy it too.
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