World of Warcraft is taboo. Not the kind of taboo that will get
you arrested or stoned by an angry mob, but there is enough stigma
attached to playing that a big fat stereotype will be slapped on your
head without a second thought. In fact if you play World of Warcraft,
or most any other game, it’s almost instantly decided that
you must be a whiney, overweight, antisocial, geek with no life, no
job, and no goals to speak of. Not to mention you probably think going
outdoors is akin to visiting another planet and your idea of a gourmet
meal is probably a ham and cheese Hot Pocket.
This was of course news to me, I mean sure I could stand to lose a few
pounds but I have a happy family, a steady job, a healthy social life
not to mention Hot Pockets make me nauseous. And while it may come as a
surprise to those that perpetuate these stereotypes most WoW players
are normal healthy individuals of many ages that come from all walks of
life. Their only apparent crime is choosing to play WoW instead of a
more accepted form of entertainment. That’s not to say that
there aren’t some individuals out there that fit the
description above, but these WoW players are a rare species indeed and
most defiantly not representative of the typical WoW player.
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When in doubt, blame video
However, everybody loves a scapegoat and WoW and its players provide
the perfect target. Instead of presenting WoW
as what it really is; a
simple form of entertainment, comparable to watching TV, all the
negative aspects are highlighted and pushed into the spotlight
providing a very skewed view of the WoW community to the
world. This skewed vision of WoW has been embraced by the
general public, and is further perpetuated by the media.
My first real
experience with this attitude occurred as my wife and I were making our
way through our local mall. It was a chilly day and because of this my
wife had donned her ‘For the Horde’ hoodie. This
wasn’t the first time she had worn in, however this would be
the first time anyone ever made a comment on it. As we checked out at
one particular store the cashier happened to glance down and
read the words on her partially zipped hoodie. A few seconds later,
apparently unable to hold it in any longer the cashier blurted out
“I can’t believe you play World of Warcraft,
you’re a girl and you look so.. normal!”
Not knowing exactly what to say my wife mumbled a response and we
quickly grabbed our bags and left.
Even after this experience I remained convinced that this stigma was
simply a part of the small town life I lived and couldn’t
possibly extend to the world at large. However my opinion quickly
changed as examples of this stigma jumped out at me seemingly
everywhere I turned. Groups on social networking sites, blogs, and
forums can be found spread all over the World Wide Web
dedicated solely to the trashing of World of Warcraft and
it’s players and YouTube is littered with anti-wow videos.
The media further enhances the anti-wow attitude by picking up stories
such as “Man Abandons Girlfriend in Labor to Play
WoW” then sensationalizes it, making it seem like
the game is the reason for this atrocious behavior. People who are not
familiar with the game buy into this nonsense and the stereotype
thrives and grows. Even parodies of the game done completely in jest
such as the wildly popular World of Warcraft episode of South Park, or
the MC Raider song by Myndflame are dangerous. While I certainly
laughed at both of them, enjoying the sheer ridiculousness of it all,
there are those who truly believe that all WoW players are really like
this and seeing it on TV, or perpetuated in a song just confirms what
they think they already know.
With the media apparently embracing the concept it makes it easy for
people to lay the blame for all their problems or the problems of their
loved ones on the game instead of where it really belongs; on
themselves. Are you anti-social, suicidal, refuse to work, or force
your Mom to bring you a bedpan so you can continue playing, or any
other number of negative traits? Don’t worry, it’s
probably the game’s fault, and of course if you play the game
well then there just has to be something wrong with you. But with the
stereotype going strong, and the stigma attached to the game growing,
what can we as WoW players do to stand against it?
There is a relatively simple two part answer to this question. First
and probably most important, is don’t allow yourself to
become the stereotype. With so many people believing you are a certain
way, it’s easy to actually become that which you despise.
Take WoW in moderation, don’t forget your real life friends,
and be sure to have other interests outside of WoW. Oh, and do eat
things other than Hot Pockets.
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An image from South Park
parodying a “typical” WoW player.
The second part
of the answer is to speak openly about the fact that
you play, and enjoy World of Warcraft while at the same time leading a
normal life. This may seem like an easy task however it’s the
one I’ve personally found most difficult. Living in a small
town where gaming is nearly unheard of, the prejudices are strong I
find myself often on the receiving end of stares that clearly say the
person thinks I’m insane, and sarcastic remarks.
People are baffled at why I would want to play, how I can possibly fit
it into my schedule and are convinced I’m neglecting my child
because of it. I usually calmly explain that playing WoW is no
different than zoning out in front of the TV for a few hours and answer
any questions they might have. Eventually the shackles of ignorance are
broken and they realize that perhaps gamers aren’t so bad
after all. So make a stand, be proud of being a gamer, and do your part
to dispel the myths about WoW. It’s about time we the players
stood together and said enough is enough.
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